The moments no one prepares you for after losing a pet

A weekly letter for the days when grief returns, the quiet feels too loud, or you don't know what to do next.
Written by someone who has been there. No pressure. Just something to hold onto when it hits.
You'll receive the first letter straight away.
A space for your grief

You don't have to carry it alone

Losing a pet is a real and significant loss. Whether you are grieving a dog, a cat, or another beloved companion, the pain can feel overwhelming — and invisible to those around you.
The Healing Letter arrives in your inbox each week. No advice you didn't ask for. No pressure to move on. Just words that meet you where you are — and remind you that what you're feeling is real.
Words from people who have been where you are

They didn't expect it to help, but it did

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I didn't expect a newsletter to help, but it did. It made me feel less alone.
Karsten R
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The emails arrive just when I need them. Gentle and never too much.
Suzy P
"Grief does not follow instructions. Neither should you."
From the guide
You might be wondering

Email Support After Pet Loss

Is it normal to grieve this much for a pet?

Yes. Completely. Pets are family. They greet us at the door, sleep beside us, and love us without condition. When they die, the loss can feel as painful as losing any loved one. Sometimes more isolating, because not everyone understands. Your grief is not an overreaction. It is proof of how much you loved them.

How long does pet grief last?

There is no timeline. Some people feel lighter after a few weeks; others carry the weight for months or longer. Grief is not linear. It comes in waves. The Healing Letter is here for however long you need it, whether that is a few emails or a full year.

What if I'm not ready to talk to anyone yet?

That is exactly why this exists. The Healing Letter is a one-way offering. Words you can read when you are ready, in private, with no expectation of response. You don't have to explain your grief to anyone. You can just receive.

Is this only for people who lost dogs or cats?

No. This is for anyone who has lost a companion animal. A rabbit, a bird, a horse, a hamster, any creature who shared your life. Grief doesn't check species.
Whenever you're ready

Start wherever you are

Whether you lost your pet today or months ago, the Healing Letter meets you where you are. There is no rush. You can join now and read whenever you are ready.
You'll receive the first letter straight away.
When you need more support

The Pet Loss Support Series

Books, guides, and gentle companions for every stage of grief.
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The Guilt and Grief Workbook
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The First Year Without You
A month-by-month companion for the impossible journey of the first year.
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The First 72 Hours
For the shock, the sleepless nights, and the first impossible days.
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